6 Hidden Behaviors That Destroy Families : Strategies for Healthier and More Loving Relationships (Paperback)

Coming from a very dysfunctional family growing up, I could relate to this book in many ways. The author presents a book that gives readers an insight into how we can improve communication with our family. There are some very emotional stories the author shares that allow us to understand how the family can easily be torn apart. Forgiveness is a definite key in moving forward and letting go of bitterness. For years I have held onto bitterness because of the childhood I endured. When I finally was able to forgive I felt for the first time that I was free and at peace. I liked the chapter on criticism because it is one thing I heard all my life. I was never good enough, not smart enough and would never amount to anything. Words hurt so much more because they last a lifetime. Insults are used like swords in battle. They pierce the soul and damage a person to their core. There is constructive criticism that can be helpful when said in love. The author gives great examples throughout the book that is encouraging and helps readers to understand how important a strong family is. As the title implies the author shares key behaviors that if not addressed can destroy a family. I cant count the times I felt left out when going anywhere with my family. I was shunned and verbally abused by brothers and parents. I think this book would be a great resource for every parent. It would benefit families and give them directions of how to overcome obstacles that cause division. The author includes questions at the end of each chapter that I found very resourceful. I really enjoyed the checklist the author provides of ways to include all family members. When we work together we are stronger . I received a copy of this book from Celebrate Lit. The review is my own opinion.