To be or not to be a mother... : Does the heterosexual man in my life love me or the fact that I will put my life on the line to produce a child that he can call his? (Paperback)

Have you ever wondered if being a mother is a choice or is tightly ingrained in your brain by the society? It is weird that every day millions of women put their lives and bodies at risk to produce children without understanding the underlying dynamics of motherhood? Have yo ever wondered if your male partner would love you if you were not able to birth children? Or whether you would even be "worthy" of his love if you refused to give birth in order to protect yourself from child-birth deaths and complications like arthritis or hernia that are the consequences of giving birth and stay on in your life for eternity? Find answers in this book, that is a collection of essays written by the author to her unborn children and her rejection of motherhood.