Infidelity: A guide to healing and prevention for the betrayed, the betrayer, and the other person (Paperback) by Ana Kandare Soljaga

Infidelity hits a marriage like a devastating tsunami, leaving its three primary victims-the unfaithful spouse, the betrayed spouse, and the "other" man or woman-feeling anguished, unmoored, and wondering if they will ever be able to put their lives back together again. Each also finds themselves facing a whole host of critically important questions about who they are, what they did, why they did it, and what they should do about it now. How could I have done this to my spouse? How do I best cope with what has happened? Why would I choose to love someone who is not free to be in a real relationship with me? How can I ever trust him again? What is the ultimate goal of recovering from an extramarital affair? In Infidelity, Dr. Ana (as she is affectionately known) thoroughly opens and unpacks such questions, sharing her knowledge and insights into their answers, as well as guiding the reader to discover for themselves the answers that are true for them. Writing with compassion, directness and humor, Dr. Ana shows how to cope with infidelity, and how to build and nurture the kind of healthy, loving relationship that remains impervious to its temptations. If infidelity has ravaged your life-or you'd like to make sure that it never does-then give yourself the gift of reading this book.Dr. Ana is a licensed psychologist working in private practice for over 20 years. Author of the bestsellers: "Teens: A guide for parents" and "Infidelity: A guide for coping and prevention." is a frequent talk-show guest, and the subject of many radio and print interviews. To learn more about her and her work, visit her online at: dr-ana.com