Fanning the Female Flame: How to Increase Your Sexual Desire (Without Changing Partners), (Paperback)

As a female your body is designed for exquisite sexual pleasure yet often a woman's experience in the bedroom is less than that.

Why?

It isn't the fault of your anatomy - the parts are all there. And it isn't because there is something 'wrong' with you or your partner. A big missing piece is the gap in know-how. Most women piece together how to get turned on with the bits and pieces they have stumbled upon from direct experience, or as interpreted through their girlfriends, the movies, websites, or Cosmopolitan Magazine. Hopefully an older experienced sister shares her successes. Women want their partners to know how to turn them on, but their partners face the same lack of any education or training.

Fanning the Female Flame is a collection of success stories of women who have changed their bedroom experiences - they got beyond the multiple obstacles that women can have around sex. Women who wanted to be excited about having sex, who wanted not to feel frustrated, who wanted to enjoy it as much as their partner did.

These are real-life stories, based on interviews, of women in their twenties to well past menopause. There is a focus on their actions and their turning points. The actions taken are actions she took herself ... YES her partner is a big part of what happens in the bedroom and the focus here is on what actions she can initiate to create change, not her partner.

Her partner can respond (and they do).

From her decades of work with women with low desire, frustrating orgasms and painful sex, both in her Female Sexual Health practice and in her "In the Bedroom" classes, Susan shares life-changing gems to navigate around these roadblocks. Part cheerleader and part inspiring force, Susan's passion for empowering women who desire satisfying bedroom experiences shines with intelligence.

PS:

This book was written for a female audience, and a surprise is how many men comment that they read this book and how it upped the quality of - or saved - their marriage.

In Fanning the Female Flame you will learn:

• How to have a YES for pleasure.
• How to optimize your body's responses.
• The four most common ways female hormones can reduce your desire.
• How to set up your bedroom for delicious sexual events.
• How to inhibit the thoughts that inhibit you.