Love Matters More: How Fighting to Be Right Keeps Us from Loving Like Jesus, (Paperback)

"Love Matters More" is a book that will remind the reader to examine our hearts for the true motivation behind "speaking the truth in love." Author Byas is a pastor, professor and podcaster who encourages us to be cautious in how we represent Christ--are we loving those we disagree with, or is it just a battle to be right? The book is food for thought in how we present the love that Christians profess to have for others. Are we angry, argumentative, or are we seeking to understand those on the other side of the table? Byas shares personal experiences and insights that he's had as a pastor serving all kinds of people throughout the years. Have we weaponized Scripture or have we internalized the message of Jesus? If we remain factual without being relational with others, our faith seems empty and cold. Jesus sought out those who were hurting and gave them peace and love--not angry words of condemnation. While we know what Scripture says, we also need to temper that wisdom with perspective. Where has this person been throughout their lives? Have they experienced the love of Christ? Often these life experiences give us clarity on how to reach them and be honest with the truth of God's Word. In order to create relationship, we must first be invited into their stories and receive them in an open, kind way. Even if you don't agree with all of the book's message, it is worth a read to understand a different perspective of how to reach others for Christ. I felt the book was personal as well as informative and would recommend it to anyone seeking to overcome the challenges of not only ministering to others, but trying to understand people whose life experiences are different than your own. I was an early reader, thanks to Zondervan publishers. All opinions are my own.