Let us talk about sex in the life of a servant of God. I know this topic may sound a little tasteless and taboo for many, but we cannot run away from reality. Men of God are suffering in silence in their marriag-es because of lack of sex or sex starvation. They are being starved by their own wives, who are supposed to provide them with this valuable gift. All men need sex. All men love sex, regardless of their titles, aca-demic exploits, anointings, positions, or achievements in life. So, men of God love sex, and they can and should only get it from their wives. But there are hidden struggles that those men endure that remain in the closet. Just in case you are wondering, "Do men of God go through sexual starvation?" The answer is YES!! Ministers of the gospel go through extreme sexual starvation. After reading this book, you will realize that this issue is universal to all Christian marriages. Here, the man of God's marriage is used as a megaphone to speak loudly about what many whisper in secret.
"What do I do as a minister of God when I am consistently denied and rejected in bed by my wife? Who can I talk to that will understand my struggles? What do I do when my wife refuses to improve performance in bed? How do I handle a wife that is unwilling to learn sexual endeavors?" These are a few questions that go through the minds of men of God. Many have decided to be silent and treat it as a cross to carry until they can no longer bear it. For many, when a man is starved and repeatedly denied sex, his heart bleeds, he is angry, unhappy, and he eventually looks for sex somewhere else if he is not strong in faith. Every man has a limit, and when that limit hits the pivotal point, he cheats. He cheats, not because he is promiscuous and bad, but because he can't help it. Though he loves God and he loves his wife dearly, he can't help it. Then, as the result of the man's cheating, he may well be accused of being a fake minister, not really born-again, or a carnal man.
In this book, I will scrutinize the secret suffering of men of God in their marriages. I will explicitly analyze the circumstances under which their wives deny them sex to the extent that some men then cheat to satisfy their sexual desires and others contemplate divorce. I will start by recounting the biblical concept of marriage, the value of sex in marriage, and the differences between sex and making love. I'll continue with the dangers of marriage without sex, the health benefits of sex, and the spiritual benefits of sex. Finally, I will explore the restriction regarding sexual expression in marriage before suggesting the best solutions to handle these problems. I'm also hoping this book will be an eye-opener for men of God who neglect their wives' sexual needs.
