Pompeii 3 1/2ct Clarity Diamond Eternity Engagement Ring 14K Round Cut White Gold

I try to be happy with this ring as my husband got this for me as an upgrade for 10yrs. however I had a half cart ring before this one and the quality of the diamond is so much better on my old ring. The diamond has so many flaws its not clear at all and has cracks and black sports all over it. I really just want to trade this ring in at this point. As its not worth the money they say it is and no one will offer much for it so total lost. I am really unhappy with it and hate showing it to people cause you can see all the imperfections. :/ I attached picture very hard to see in pictures but you can see all the black spots you just dot see cracks unless up close you can. side view you can see black spots and small crack to the right of the pong.