This is one of the most moving books I have read. I will recommend it to anyone who wants to deepen their relationship with God. It uses the parable taught by Christ and the painting by Rembrandt to reveal the deep personal insights of the author. It is autobiographical. Henri Nouwen was a remarkable man in his personal life and the author of many books--all of which are wonderful, but this is the hallmark. The format of the book is outstanding as it allows one to look at the painting while reading. A beautiful book in every way
The Return of the Prodigal Son : A Story of Homecoming
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With over a million copies sold, this classic work is essential reading for all who ask, "Where has my struggle led me?"A chance encounter with a reproduction of Rembrandt's The Return of the Prodigal Son catapulted Henri Nouwen on an unforgettable spiritual adventure. Here he shares the deeply personal and resonant meditation that led him to discover the place within where God has chosen to dwell. As Nouwen reflects on Rembrandt's painting in light of his own life journey, he evokes a powerful drama of the classic parable in a rich, captivating way that is sure to reverberate in the hearts of readers. Nouwen probes the several movements of the parable: the younger son's return, the father's restoration of sonship, the elder son's resentfulness, and the father's compassion. The themes of homecoming, affirmation, and reconciliation will be newly discovered by all who have known loneliness, dejection, jealousy, or anger. The challenge to love as God loves, and to be loved as God's beloved, will be seen as the ultimate revelation of the parable known to Christians throughout time, and is here represented with a vigor and power fresh for our times.
With over a million copies sold, this classic work is essential reading for all who ask, “Where has my struggle led me?”
A chance encounter with a reproduction of Rembrandt’s The Return of the Prodigal Son catapulted Henri Nouwen on an unforgettable spiritual adventure. Here he shares the deeply personal and resonant meditation that led him to discover the place within where God has chosen to dwell.
As Nouwen reflects on Rembrandt’s painting in light of his own life journey, he evokes a powerful drama of the classic parable in a rich, captivating way that is sure to reverberate in the hearts of readers. Nouwen probes the several movements of the parable: the younger son’s return, the father’s restoration of sonship, the elder son’s resentfulness, and the father’s compassion. The themes of homecoming, affirmation, and reconciliation will be newly discovered by all who have known loneliness, dejection, jealousy, or anger. The challenge to love as God loves, and to be loved as God’s beloved, will be seen as the ultimate revelation of the parable known to Christians throughout time, and is here represented with a vigor and power fresh for our times.
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Henri J. M. Nouwen
The Return of the Prodigal Son
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Rembrandt's painting tells story of Prodigal Son
A beautiful, moving book. Absolutely incredible.
A must for anyone looking to deepen their relationship with God. Too good to pass up, especially at Wal-Mart's price - I had purchased a version many years ago, but I gave it away to someone. Needed another copy to give to another person! A truly fantastic work of art.
I have to let the reb...
"I have to let the rebellious younger son and the resentful elder son [inside me] step up on the platform to receive the unconditional, forgiving love that the Father offers me, and to discover there the call to be home as my Father is home" (133). Nouwen's The Return of the Prodigal Son offers a clear picture of the spiritual life. A meditation on both Jesus's parable of the Prodigal Son and Rembrandt's painting depicting the reunion narrated in that parable, Nouwen's book is comprised of three sections: the younger son, the elder son, and the Father. And each section focuses on two aspects of the character's personality-each son's departure and return and the Father's welcome and celebration. Nouwen begins with the younger son's departure, saying that to leave "is a denial of the spiritual reality" of belonging to the father (37). We can act like the younger son too, forgetting the Father's desire to be with, not needing proof to love. Stated simply, we forget that unconditional love is found with God. We forget God's unconditional love, God's unconditional welcome because we live in a world of conditional love, a love that fosters addiction through "trying, failing, and trying again" things that do not fulfill us (42). Nouwen notes that "The addicted life can aptly be designated a life lived in 'a distant country.' It is from there that our cry for deliverance rises up" (43). Meditating on the painting, Nouwen sees the return as an end of rebellion. The painting shows that the younger son has lost his familial identifiers (his red robe, for example), has been living in rags, and has returned a shell of his former self. "The only remaining sign of dignity is the short sword hanging from his hips-the badge of his nobility. . . . The sword is there to show me that . . . he had not forgotten that he still was the son of his father. It was this remembered and valued sonship that finally persuaded him to return back" (46). The challenge for us, too, is to claim our valued sonship/daughtership. And the love of the father, again, is unconditional. As in the parable, we need no explanation at our return; we simply fall into embrace. We don't need to beg for the status as a slave, as the younger son was prepared to do; we are waiting to be welcomed as children of the forgiving father. Yet, "One of the greatest challenges of the spiritual life is to receive God's forgiveness. . . . Receiving forgiveness requires a total willingness to let God be God and do all the healing, restoring, and reviewing. As long as I want to do even a part of that myself, I end up with partial solutions, such as becoming a hired servant. As a hired servant, I can still keep my distance, still revolt, reject, strike, run away, or complain about my pay. As the beloved son, I have to claim my full dignity and begin preparing myself to become the father" (53). This dignity allows us to live in heaven, yes, but also now on earth, free of self-aware "obsessions and compulsions" (54). Nouwen closes with a meditation on Jesus as "the true prodigal." Jesus is the obedient Son who leaves his glorious home to show us sinners a way to return to the Father. According to Nouwen, the elder son experienced a leaving too-despite his having stayed at home physically-because he was living in resentment. The elder son's "obedience and duty have become a burden, and service has become slavery" (70). Nouwen writes, "The lostness of the elder son . . . is much harder to identify. After all, he did all the right things. . . . But when confronted by his father's joy at the return of the younger brother, a dark power erupts in him and boils to the surface. Suddenly, there becomes glaringly visible a resentful, proud, unkind, selfish person, one that had remained deeply hidden . . ." (71). This resentment comes from feeling unappreciated and uncelebrated, as evidenced by the elder son's complaint that he'd never even received a kid to cook for a celebration with his friends. For the elder son to make a return to the father, he needed to learn that "the joy at the dramatic return of the younger son in no way means that the elder son was less favored. The father does not compare the two sons. He loves them both with a complete love and expresses that love according to their individual journeys" (80). The elder son needs to learn trust and gratitude, according to Nouwen. "Trust is that deep inner conviction that the Father wants me home" (84). "Gratitude . . . claims the truth that all of life is a pure gift. . . . The discipline of gratitude is the explicit effort to acknowledge that all I am and have is given to me as a gift of love, a gift to be celebrated with joy" (85). To trust and have gratitude require overcoming fear and resentment; it is a leap of faith. "And every time I make a little leap, I catch a glimpse of the One who runs out to me and invites me into his joy, the joy in which I can find not only myself, but also my brothers and sisters. Thus the disciplines of trust and gratitude reveal the God who searches for me, burning with desire to take away all my resentments and complaints and to let me sit at his side at the heavenly banquet" (86). Nouwen also finishes this chapter with a section on Jesus as "the true elder son." Nouwen observes, "All that Jesus says about himself reveals him as the Beloved Son, the one who lives in complete communion with the Father. There is no distance, fear, or suspicion between Jesus and the Father" (87). Jesus shows us the way to the Father by being one with the Father. Nouwen concludes his book with a section on the loving father. He notes that the painting portrays the father's hands in different ways: one seems rough and masculine, while the other seems smooth and feminine. Nouwen suggests that Rembrandt wanted to portray "not only a father who 'clasps his son in his arms,' but also [as] a mother who caresses her child, surrounds him with the warmth of her body, and holds him against the womb from which he sprang. Thus," Nouwen continues, "the 'return of the prodigal son' becomes the return to God womb, the return to the very origins of being and again echoes Jesus' exhortation to Nichodemus, to be reborn from above" (100). For Nouwen, this love of the father goes out, seeking as much as it is sought. "It might sound strange, but God wants to find me as much as, if not more than, I want to find God. . . . [H]e leaves the house, ignoring his dignity by running toward [his children], pays no heed to apologies and promises of change, and brings them to the table richly prepared for them. "I am beginning now to see how radically the character of my spiritual journey will change when I no longer think of God as hiding out and making it as difficult as possible for me to find him, but, instead, as the one who is looking for me while I am doing the hiding. When I look through God's eyes at my lost self and discover God's joy at my coming home, then my life may become less anguished and more trusting" (106-107). Nouwen concludes with the observation "that my final vocation is indeed to become life the Father and to live out his divine compassion in my daily life. Though I am both the younger son and the elder son, I am not to remain them, but to become the Father" (121). Nouwen helpfully points out that sentimentalism is not at play here (or in the gospels), but rather the concrete notion of sonship/daughtership. "[A]s son and heir I am to become successor. I am destined to step into my Father's place and offer to others the same compassion that he has offered me. The return to the Father is ultimately the challenge to become the Father" (123). Nouwen offers three ways to compassionate fatherhood: grief, forgiveness, and generosity (128). He notes grief because one must become aware of the "waywardness of God's children, our lust, our greed, our violence, our anger, our resentment" (128-129). Grief, according to Nouwen, requires both sorrow over this state of our lostness and preparation to receive anyone and forgive them. Nouwen defines forgiveness as "the way to step over the wall [of injury that separates persons] and welcome others into my heart without expecting anything in return" (130). Generosity involves giving oneself; "this giving of self is a discipline because it is something that does not come spontaneously" (131). We must live our lives as witnesses to the love of the Father so to live into the love of the Father, being able to love with the same love.
Rated: A-Prologue: En...
Rated: A- Prologue: Encounter with a Painting - The Painting • ... (Rembrandt) painted father and son, God and humanity, compassion and misery, in one circle of love. 6: The Elder Son's Return - A Possible Conversion • The Father's love does not force itself on the beloved. Although he wants to heal us of all our inner darkness, we are still free to make our own choice to stay in the darkness or to step into the light of God's love. God is there. God's light is there. God's forgiveness is there. God's boundless love is there. What is so clear is that God is always there, always ready to give and forgive, absolutely independent of our response. God's love does not depend on our repentance or our inner or outer changes. 6: The Elder Son's Return - Letting God of Rivalry • "In the house of my father there are many places to live," Jesus says. Each child of God has there his or her unique place, all of them places of God. 6: The Elder Son's Return - Through Trust and Gratitude • Resentment and gratitude cannot coexist, since resentment blocks the perception and experience of life as a gift. 8: The Father Welcomes Home - No More or Less • God loves with a divine love, a love that cedes to all women and men their uniqueness without ever comparing. 8: The Father Welcomes Home - The Heart of God • ... I no longer think of God as hiding out and making it as difficult as possible for me to find him, but, instead, as the one who is looking for me while I am doing the hiding. 9: The Father Calls for a Celebration - Giving the Very Best • ... spontaneous forgiveness ... 9: The Father Calls for a Celebration - An Invitation to Joy • "Rejoice with me," the shepherd says, "I have found my sheep that was lost." "Rejoice with me," the woman says, "I have found the drachma I lost." "Rejoice with me," the father says, "This son of mine was lost and is found." ... God rejoices because one of his children who was lost has been found. 10: Conclusion: Becoming the Father - A Lonely Step • "Be compassionate as your Father is compassionate." (Luke 6:36, CEB) ... The return to the Father is ultimately the challenge to become the Father.
Im surprised to say I...
I'm surprised to say I really liked this book. I have always disliked this parable, simply because I always believed that the elder brother was right to feel the way he did, and that the father's actions were a betrayal to the elder son's devotion to his father all those years. However, for the first time, after reading through this book, I am able to see how, perhaps, the full intent behind this story in the first place, was for us to be able to see ourselves in each character, and view it as a metaphor for the life journey that we all must make. As much as we might not want to admit it, we all have had moments where we have acted more like the wayward son, straying from our parents' expectations and desires, to act on our own whims. Likewise, as mentioned above, we have also most likely experienced feeling bitterness & resentment toward those who seemed to get good things handed to them although we feel them to be undeserving. We go back & forth between each of these extremes throughout our lives, but eventually we must move toward viewing ourselves as the father in the story. As the father tried to explain to the elder son in the story, his love for both his sons is the same. Just because he is celebrating one son's return does not diminish his love for the other. The elder son has always had access to all his father had to give, and never had to learn of the suffering that goes along with losing everything due to one's own stupidity. The younger son had to learn that lesson the hard way. We start out on our journey having to learn from both our successes and failures, and eventually, we should be able to see and understand the full scope of a parent's love for all his children as we move into that role toward the end of our journey.
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